kamu masih galau?

Hei,..

Gimana hari ini, udah ceria or masih lanjut galaunya?
Galau juga bisa kayak sinetron pake episode segala. Bedanya kalo ini kamu sendiri sutradaranya, artinya kamu berhak menentukan endingnya. Mau dibikin happy end atau eng ing eng...... hwahahaha. Ayo ketawa dong. Iya ngerti masih nyesek *puk2 yg lagi nyesek*

Pelampiasan galau itu beda2. Saya punya temen yang kalo sedang galau hobinya nelponin cuma untuk denger saya berkicau ngalor ngidul yang kadang ngga ada hubungannya ama kegalauan dia. Pokoknya saya ngga boleh berhenti cerita. Ngga peduli saya lagi di kantor atau di atas pohon dia tetep maksa untuk denger suara saya. Eh ngomong2 di atas pohon ngapain juga sik, metik mangga apa ya. ckckck..

Trus pernah juga ada temen yang lagi hebat2 nya galau (emang ada ya galau yg hebat). Jadi ceritanya dia diputusin cowoknya. Seperti biasa kita ngga bakal mempan ngenasehatin orang yang masih cinta mati ama pasngannya. Gitu juga dengan temen saya, bukannya insaf mikirin ex nya yang udah ngga peduli lagi, eh malah dia ngajakin nongkrong di kafe tempat biasa ex cowonya ngopi n nongkrong ama temen2 nya. Dia bilang kemungkinan ex nya bakal ke kafe itu ama cewek barunya. Waduh sakit hati bukannya diobati kok malah diresapi. Bisa ditebak kalo galaunya bakal tambah akut deh.

Nah kalo Ana lain lagi ceritanya, dia melampiaskan galau dengan dengerin lagu2 nostalgia yang biasa mereka denger bareng di mobil. Ini namanya menikmati galau. Bukannya disingkirin tuh lagu berbau nostalgia malah makin dihayati. Uwoooooowoooowww...

Nah kalo kamu sendiri gimana...mau menimmati galau dengan cara apa? bhahahakk...Im sorry bukannya mau ngeledek, tapi cuma ngingetin aja, ada kok cara cara mengatasi atau melampiaskan galau dengan cara yang lebih postif... (ada ya galau positif..ngggggg). Artinya yang ngga makin bikin kamu makin terpuruk tak berdaya dan guling2 ngga karuan di atas kasur yang udah basah oleh air mata dan ingus yang ngga jelas. Ih ini galau jorok namanya,...

Oke sekarang kamu putuskan dulu, mau galau gaya apa. Besok saya temenin lagi ya dengan cerita galau yang lebih positif lagi.

Jangan lupa baliklah bantalmu. Siapa baliknya masih kering gitu. *digeplak*

Ada yg lagi galau?

Halo, selamat malam, (ganti sendiri dg pagi , siang atau sore sesuai kebutuhan).
Kamu lagi apa? Ooo lagi nyante aja.
Jangan lupa sambil nyante, makan cemilan, putar lagu favorit kamu juga tuh. happiness is quite simple right?
Eh, apa? kamu juga lagi galau? Kenapa? Dimana? Sama siapa? *diplerokin kangen band*

Ya...ya..saya ngerti kamu lagi galau, tapi musti ada sebabnya dong. Kalo galau gara2 tgl tuwa, tabahkan hatimu ya, kan tgl tua belum tentu tgl muda. *pait pait pait.....*

Whaatttt? Kamu lagi galau ditinggal kekasih? *jrengggg*
Tenang aja, kamu ngga sendirian. Artis2 yg notabene cantik, ganteng, sukses atau cemerlang juga mengalami hal2 semacam galau bin sakit hati kok. Jadi kamu ngga sendiri. Jangan mentang2 kamu lagi patah hati lalu ngerasa bahwa kamu manusia ngga berguna, ngga cantik, ngga ganteng, ngga berhak merasakan kebahagiaan dan embel2 pesimis lainnya yg makin bikin kamu terpuruk.
Oke, kamu sedih, kamu nangis, merana, perih, dan termehek mehek, itu manusiawi. Tau kan Jennifer Aniston? Dia aja abis pisah dengan Brad Pitt plus abis itu juga mengalami jatuh bangun masalah patah hati putus dari John Mayer dll. Lalu dia memutuskan untuk yoga sembari menyembuhkan sakit hatinya.
Tau Robert Pattinson kan (twilight)? Dia yg gantengnya kayak apa juga menderita patah hati akut pas putus sama Kristen Stewart.
Ya iyalah Mereka kan juga manusia yg bisa mengalami kegagalan cinta, berjuang melawan galau karena patah hati. Jadi bukan kamu aja tauk.

Ehhhh bahkan ada artes yg susah move on, kayak kak Jupe misalnya. Hihihi Jupe pas ditinggal Gaston, liat aja gimana perjuangannya untuk move on, kita bisa liat betapa dia sangat mencintai dan mengharap keajaiban cinta kembali. Kita yang nggak sedang ngalami kejadian itu dan melihat dari kacamata orang luar udah tau banget deh ,kalo Jupe itu berhak menerima kebahagiaan dengan menemukan cinta barunya yg akan membuatnya lebih bahagia dan dihargai.
Tapi ya tetep aja dari yg pihak yg sedang setress dan patah hatinya tingkat dewa ngga akan bisa menerima itu dg mudahnya. Butuh waktu memang,...plus kemauan dari diri sendiri untuk melawan kegalauan. Pasti bisa. iya...bisa. ih ngga percaya.

Tau ngga sik, kamu sendiri kok yang memberikan tenggang waktu untuk galau. Setelah itu, stop galau dan BANGKIT ! Rugi kali kelamaan galau, mungkin orang yg sedang kamu galauin malah udah hepi dengan yang lain? Nah, ngga guna juga kelamaan meratapinya.
Cup cup cup...Jangan melihat ke belakang lagi ya. Apalagi pas tengah malam jumat kliwon, jalan sendiri di tengah hutan...ughhhhh ngga tega banget liat kebelakang...(bisa ngebayangin kan?)

Baiklah...kalo masih galau juga, saya akan menemani kamu dengan tulisan lainnya yg dijamin bikin kamu terhibur. Apalagi kalo kamu ngga galau, bisa lunjak2 kali ya. hwihihi.
Kalo kamu mau share atau curhat juga boleh.
Saya sih yes aja. Kalo mas Anang mungkin bakal bilang : "Kalo saya sih No." *apa sik*

Bukannya kalo lagi galau kamu cuma butuh temen bukan? Sayapun. ayo berpelukan *peluk*

Possesive = Insecure?

Have you been in a situation or have u experienced where you are afraid to lose something?   I named that situation as “insecure condition.”
Usually insecure condition happens when people have something they like or they love too much.  For example, when we have someone we love, we mostly being possessive of our partner, because we are afraid to lose him/her.
So, can we assume that being possessive = insecure condition?

I analyzed of several couples. Some of them are possessive and others are not. Mostly the spouse is the one insecure, he or she always being possessive. He or she never allow their partner to make new friends unless together with him or her. Their life is just between him and his partner. Why? Because they afraid their partner having an affair out there. Why? Because they have problems or weakness where they can not handle and face it. 

Like a man in an inferiority complex, there’re so many reasons why a man have inferiority complex. In my opinion, sometimes when a man being inferiority, it because for example he doesn’t have a job, or maybe he has a problem in bed. Those are two things that a man should be having right? And of course there is still another reason about that. The impact of the situation, man tend overprotect his girl friend. Sometimes he never allows his partner to do some activities without reason, and finally it makes the relationship not going well.  One feel insecure, and other feel afraid to make her partner being angry (because he is very over protective). So I think that is not a healthy relationship.

When you feel secure and comfortable with your life, it will be different the way you treat your partner, compared to when you feel insecure.

So if we feel secure with our life, why we should be very possessive?

so Are u Tissue or handkerchief?

Friend of mine one said there are 2 types of relationship : Those are Handkerchief and Tissue paper’s type. As we know that we use tissue paper just for one time and after that we throw it. We never use it anymore . But Handkerchief, after we use it, we tend to wash and make it clean , iron it, give a little bitfragrance, keep it at the right place, and then we can use it again, again and again because we always want to use and keep it. tissue is temporary,..meanwhile handkerchief is more lasting.

It related with a relationship between man and woman, it can be casual relationship (tissue type) or long term relationship (handkerchief) that it might be end up with marriage. Mostly Guy meet various women and he won’t be stop until he found the perfect one such as a woman in his dream. Even he maybe meet a woman close with what he wants, but at the other time if he meet other woman who more attractive, his adrenaline like to whisper that he should get that woman, sometime its not cause he really want her, but it more just such as challenging to prove wheter he still has a power to draw attention of woman or not. May be it one of reasons if man were tend to choose a ‘’casual / tissue relationship’’ (please correcting me as i know u must be have another opinion in ur mind) It means a relationship just for fun. Meanwhile a man who is already really feel comfort with his partner and tired to challenge his self, finally he is going to stop his “adventure’ and call his relationship like a handkerchief relationship.

By the way, this is another thing, one of my friends, he declare his relationship as a tissue paper. I wondering why he choose tissue, not handkerchief? And here is the answer….As his opinion, relationship like a tissue for him it more simple and not bothered him with things that will be make his life miserable, because it no needs maintenance, no heart feeling, and more fun. If he choose handkerchief, he should maintain, give more attention, more effort to keep it going on and on and on, and maybe sometime getting bored just with one partner.

Pffffuiiihh….. I just heard about that thing. Honestly I have a curiousity, which one does every single man in this world choose. kind of a Tissue relationship, or Handkerchief Relationship…Honestly, which one?

hmmmmmm.......

So…Are u Tissue guy or Handkerchief Guy?